Pride Gear That Doesn’t Look Like You Bought It at a Corporate Pride Booth
Finding a gift for your queer friend should not be stressful. It should be a joy. The bar, however, has been set very low by the party supply aisle at CVS. We are raising it today.
These are the funny gifts that actually get a real laugh. Not a polite “haha cute” but a full cackle. Iykyk the difference.
Phluid Project

Phluid Project is a gender-free brand founded by a gay man that puts community first. Their pride collections are made in collaboration with LGBTQ+ artists and activists. You are buying something with meaning attached. The shirts, bags, and accessories here look good and feel good to wear. The brand also runs a physical retail space in New York that hosts community events year-round. Not just a store. A space. Shop the Phluid Project pride collection
TomboyX
TomboyX makes underwear and basics for every body, founded by two queer women. Their pride drops are inclusive by default, not by seasonal policy. Size range goes up to 4X. The underwear is genuinely that good. The pride prints are genuinely that fun. Bonus: they make great gifts because almost everyone can use a good pair of underwear and no one is going to return these. Shop the TomboyX pride underwear collection
Big Bud Press
Los Angeles brand Big Bud Press makes colorful, durable, gender-neutral workwear and basics that have become something of a queer uniform. Their Everyday Tote Bag in a fun colorway is peak pride gear for people who think corporate rainbow merch is embarrassing. Iykyk. Everything is made in Los Angeles, sizing runs XS to 5X, and the color palette is joyful in a way that feels intentional rather than performative. Shop the Big Bud Press Everyday Tote Bag
Bobblehaus
Bobblehaus is a New York label co-founded by queer women of color making clothes that are unapologetically vibrant and queer. Their drops sell out fast because the community actually wants them. Not because they are pride month adjacent. Think graphic tees, bold outerwear, and statement pieces that work as everyday wear for people who live their queerness every day. Shop the Bobblehaus pride drops
Queer Etsy Sellers
Etsy is full of independent queer makers selling hand-embroidered pride hats, screen printed tees, and one-of-a-kind accessories that you genuinely cannot buy anywhere else. Search for queer pride gear and sort by “queer-owned” filters where available. Spend your money with actual people. A hand-embroidered beanie or a screen-printed tote from a queer artist ships directly from their kitchen table to yours. That matters. Shop queer-owned pride gear on Etsy
Wildfang
Wildfang was built specifically for people who love menswear but do not want it made for men. Their suiting and workwear has a confident, slightly rebellious vibe that works well beyond June. The brand collaborates consistently with queer artists and activists and their limited drops are genuinely worth watching for. The “Wild Feminist” merch line in particular is a staple with staying power. Shop the Wildfang workwear collection
Bluestockings Co-op
Bluestockings Co-op is a worker-owned queer bookstore in New York with an online shop. Their totes, pins, and accessories carry literary and activist energy that stands apart from standard pride merch. Buying from them supports an independent queer institution directly. That is the kind of pride gear purchase you feel good about twice: once when you buy it, once every time you use it. Shop the Bluestockings Co-op pride accessories
Skip the corporate booth. Shop queer, spend local where you can, and wear something that actually means something to someone who made it.
